How our first Job affects our confidence and affects our life?

It might be boring or nonsense or not a good topic for everyone and yet this strongly captured my senses and interests!

Looking back to when we were young and started to discover the world and our existence and what is life all about we can therefore conclude it’s not only about how we are with our family but at the same time how we are outside our family.

For instance, ask yourself how your first job affects your total personality or behavior or how you establish your good rapport or good camaraderie towards other people. How do we develop our patience, and working ethic with our superiors and subordinates? Are we the type of employee or person who is kind and matured in sharing our knowledge or the kind of person who is selfish, do we really think who cares, meaning you want others to learn on their own? Are you best at delegating people, or the one who is people pleaser sort of, or do you manage to adopt and apply both of that character?

The other day I was talking to my son about how his first job might affect him. I told him my personal experience of my first job when I was young then which contributed a lot to how I changed my perspective in life I discovered people are not the same, realizing there are a lot of good people on earth, and my first job develops my confidence in the higher level.

What type of personality have you developed through the years of evolving and adopting and cooperating with other people? Does it make you a more kind and patient low-profile person towards other people? or does it makes you hard with other people? Our working environment is next to our family like how our school is next to our home when we are still a student right?

Then I remember my son told me people have their own will or choices! Either one person who experienced struggles in life might either be hard or good with other people. And his mind is liberated telling me both is acceptable whatever choices the person wants, meaning if he chose to make other people feel hard the same as how he experienced life then it’s his choice on the other hand if someone experienced good and he wants to be hard with other people, the same thing it’s the persons choices!

Exactly the same as how we are with the people we work with! We can help them by being a good example of how to be good and nice and a help to them by sharing cooperation, patience, and understanding. Or we can make their life working experience unforgettable in the sense they experience a hard one .

One day sooner or a little later our children will be thrown into the real world and will experience what is life, by gaining life experiences with other people they will be working with!

Here are some real-life experiences I can share and feel free to add yours!

1. Cooperation is one secret

2. Competition is good but guard yourself for self-entitlement

3. Don’t be shy to ask when you don’t understand something

4. Set boundaries

5. If someone asks for help related to the work, give your help!

6. Avoid gossip, avoid gossiper…it does exist…

7. Be kind

8. Treat everyone with respect and be respectable

9. Be loyal to the company you will be working with!

10. Honesty is always the best policy!

11. Focus on your work

12. I don’t encourage anyone to remain an employee for the rest of your life!

13. Treat everyone EQUALLY!

14. It’s not about the money you will be saved, but it’s the life experience you get out of it that will make you a better person!

Thanks for the read!

Much love,

Wewe

“It’s not about the money you can earn or save,

It’s about the life experiences in which you will get to be a better person! “

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