LIVING. LOVING. LEAVING.

In your life, it is up to what certain point you gonna use and stay with these three very important words. How are you gonna apply to someone very important with you, like perhaps with your spouse, wife, friends or any family members?

Talking of living, how you defined living- it is the condition of being alive. But how we can use living in another sentence like when you say they were living under the same roof, or I’ve been living in the same apartment too long with this person or with your family members or you may say: I feel like I just started living again Or you may say I can no longer take living with this person in one roof… In whatever circumstances this word “living “ put or defined where you are now, then I wish we all could wonderfully apply it and help us think wisely.

How about loving a person? Is it healthy continuously love a person who is no longer treating you correctly? When he’s belittling you or making you feel bad with his verbal abuse. In the Bible, we are being taught to forgive 70×7 times and we can still apply it but that doesn’t mean allowing a person to continuously hurt you physically or mentally. How are you gonna love a person when he’s no longer giving you respect or someone is humiliating you? How we can at the same time follow God’s words to love a person in case of couple situations when upon your matrimony you vowed to one another that in sickness and in health, in poorer or richer till death do us part you will love that person? Perhaps as much as we wanted, events, scenarios, and other contributing factors inside the marriage for example, or any form of relationship can affect whatever commitment we tried to meet

And as much as we wanted to love and stay in that relationship we opt to say: No! I’d rather get my freedom back…

And lastly, the word leaving..When is the right time to say: Enough is enough? How do you define leaving by the way? Practically for me, it is easy to define : it is farewell to one person or be detached or set boundaries? Leaving could be mean ending your relationship with one person? Or in a positive way, it can be mean leaving all those burdened that weigh you down for so long. Whatever way these “leaving” words bother or help your life I wish you could identify its best.

Happy Sunday everyone! Thank you for your time reading this Sunday’s thoughts of mine.